On the 29th of July 2023, the Director of Student Governance and Leadership Development hosted an uplifting seminar for young men at Tshwane University of Technology’s Garankuwa campus in the new hall. The event welcomed all who wished to attend, providing free transport and entrance for participants.
One of the esteemed motivational speakers invited to the event was Doctor “16 Valve” Khumalo. The hall was filled with eager young men seeking inspiration, and other motivational speakers were also invited to share their wisdom.
Among the speakers was Tlotlo Ngwenya, Deputy Secretary General in the Institutional Student Representative Council. Tlotlo has an impressive background, serving as the National RCL Deputy President and the North West Provincial Errol RCL Deputy President. He is also a Delegate for Safety Senate in the Ngaka Modirele Molema District, a Deputy Head Boy, and successfully completed his grade 12. Tlotlo emphasized the need to challenge the negative narrative that labels young men as part of a sad generation and aims to transform society’s perception of men as weak. He stressed the importance of nurturing capable and responsible men.
Tlotlo Ngwenya stated, “We are striving to produce men who have the drive to do what is right, men who are no longer afraid to stand for what is right and what they believe in.” He emphasized their goal to use the platform to instill a reformed mindset in young men.
Another speaker, Mr. Bongani Ngomani from the Gender Commission of South Africa, holds a master’s degree in entrepreneurship and new venture creation, an honors degree from the University of Stellenbosch, and a junior degree from the University of Durban Westville in Public Administration. He is a chief director at the Gauteng Department of Social Development, the chairperson of the 365 Man’s Awards, and a part-time commissioner at the Commission for Gender Equality.
Mr. Ngomani addressed the existing gender stereotypes towards men and boys in the country, asserting that the Gender Commission is actively working to challenge these stereotypes. He encouraged young men to become gender activists and stand against any form of gender oppression. He urged them to fight for equality and fairness.
Mr. Ngomani also proposed the idea of a “Man’s Charter,” which would outline the rights and responsibilities of South African men, fostering a more inclusive society.
Doctor Khumalo, a renowned former football player from South Africa who represented the national team and Kaizer Chiefs as a midfielder, shared his valuable insights with the young audience. He recounted his football journey, which began in 1987 with Kaizer Chiefs, and eventually led to him becoming a living legend in African football.
Doctor Khumalo advised the young men not to be distracted by things that may hinder their progress. He urged them to remain positive, even in challenging circumstances, and to persevere towards their goals. Drawing from his own experiences, he encouraged the participants to focus on positive aspects and not be disheartened by hardships.
The Motlhabane Young Men’s Seminar at Tshwane University of Technology proved to be an inspiring event. The speakers, emphasized the importance of challenging negative stereotypes, fighting for gender equality, and maintaining a positive mindset to achieve success. The event left a lasting impact on the young men, empowering them to become capable, responsible, and confident individuals who can contribute positively to society.
