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Master Your Emotions, Maximise Your Tertiary Experience

neomcinga by neomcinga
April 30, 2025
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College can be amazing—but let’s be real, it can also be a lot. Between classes, deadlines, social life, and personal growth, it is normal to feel emotionally stretched. That’s why emotional regulation is so important.

What Is Emotional Regulation?

Emotional regulation is your ability to recognize, understand, and manage your emotions—especially when things get stressful. It’s not about suppressing how you feel; it’s about learning how to respond, not just react.

For example, if a taxi driver cuts in front of you and nearly causes an accident, your heart rate might spike, and you might feel anger rising (“letting off steam”). With good emotional regulation, you can calm yourself quickly after assessing the situation—recognizing you’re safe now and getting angry won’t help.

When we’re dysregulated, however, we struggle to calm down. Our bodies stay in survival mode, responding to the threat long after it’s passed. You might still feel angry hours later, replaying the incident in your mind during class or while trying to study.

The same applies when your professor returns that paper with a lower grade than expected. Emotional regulation helps you take a deep breath, assess the feedback constructively, and plan to improve—rather than spiralling into self-doubt.

Why It Matters

Your brain’s emotional centers can sometimes override your rational thinking when you’re stressed. That’s biology at work! Emotional regulation techniques help your prefrontal cortex (the thinking part of your brain) stay online when emotions run high. This leads to:

Here are some practical techniques to help you regulate your emotions:

  • Better focus when life feels chaotic
  • Improved mental health and reduced stress
  • Stronger relationships with friends and classmates
  • Faster recovery from setbacks and disappointments

Build Your Emotional Toolkit

Pause + Breathe: Before responding to that frustrating text or disappointing grade, take 60 seconds to breathe deeply. Count to four as you inhale, hold for four, and exhale for six. This simple practice activates your parasympathetic nervous system, helping you calm down physically.

Reframe Your Thinking: Shift from “I’m failing this course” to “I’m figuring out which study methods work best for me.” This cognitive reframing helps you see challenges as opportunities rather than threats.

Move Your Body: When anxiety builds before a big presentation, take a 10-minute walk outside. Physical movement helps process stress hormones and shifts your mental state. Even stretching at your desk can help reset your mood.

Journal It Out: Set a timer for five minutes and write without stopping about what you’re feeling. Getting thoughts on paper helps create distance between you and overwhelming emotions.

Talk to Someone: Whether it’s a trusted friend, family member, or campus counselor, sharing your struggles lightens their weight. Your university likely offers free counseling services—taking advantage of them is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Practice Makes Progress

If you’ve been feeling off lately—moody, drained, or just stuck—it could be your mind’s way of saying, “Hey, I need a break.” The good news? Emotional regulation is a skill you can build—and the more you practice, the easier it gets.

Remember that everyone struggles with emotions sometimes. The difference is in how you respond when they arise. With practice and patience, you can learn to ride emotional waves instead of being swept away by them.

Your college experience isn’t just about what you learn in class—it’s also about developing life skills that will serve you long after graduation. Emotional regulation might just be the most valuable skill you take with you.

Your mental health matters. If you need support, reach out to your campus counseling center. You’ve got this.

In case of emergency, please contact the following free platforms:

Life Line: 0861 322 322

SADAG: 0800 456 789 (24 hour helpline)

Suicide Emergency: 0800 567 567

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